Ever wonder what you need to talk about before you get married? As a marriage counselor offering premarital counseling for many years, I have selected these as the most important topics along with questions for you to explore before you walk down the aisle. Trouble discussing any of these issues might suggest to you that sitting down with a premarital counselor could be helpful. You can contact me directly at
34 Questions to Ask Before Getting Married - Must Use for Premarital Counseling
34 Christian Questions Every Couple Should Ask Before Marriage
Specializing in stepfamily therapy and education has taught me one thing: Couples should be highly educated about remarriage and the process of becoming a stepfamily before they ever walk down the aisle. Remarriage—particularly when children are involved—is much more challenging than dating seems to imply. Be sure to open your eyes well before a decision to marry has been made. The following list represents key challenges every single parent or those dating a single parent should know before deciding to remarry.
What follows is a guide for counselors to take a couple contemplating marriage, or engaged to be married, through a basic process of discovery. Counselors should feel free to adapt this approach to their own gifts and style, so long as the essentials are covered. Keep in mind also that each couple to be counseled will have different levels of spiritual maturity and needs. Circumstances among couples will also vary.