Yet, there I was, feet dipped in clear water, staring into the horizon, trying to convince two middle-aged women whom I did not know that the man I was with was indeed my husband. By the fourth day of our vacation on the islands, we had got used to being stared at. She then asked me questions about our wedding and everything that had led to it. Then the other woman, who had remained silent until then, asked me for proof.
Reflections from a White Woman on Dating An Indian Man
When a White Woman Dates An Indian Man People WILL Judge
Today, we see a lot of inter-caste marriages. But, more than the inter-caste marriage, marrying women from abroad has become a craze now. There are several Indian men who migrate abroad only to fall in love with beautiful white women. These white women, on the other hand, marry our Indian men for more than a handful of reasons.
He felt the same way and for a few weeks we dated, spending every possible moment together getting to know each other. First, it was great to realise that not all Indian men are afraid to be with a white, divorced women for fear of what their parents will say. The second thing that happened really took me by surprise. I am used to being stared at simply because I look different and stand out here in India.
Are Indians racist? Undoubtedly so. Not only that, but we seem to be humongous hypocrites.