Share stunning photos of men's outfits and accessories. He wanted only to be with her, and she avoided the future altogether. He wanted to commit, to start a life, the two of them; while she broke into a cold sweat every time he said commitment. Does it seem a little weird that it's a she running away from commitment, rather than a he in the above instance?
When you said you wanted to be in a relationship, I panicked. When you made it sound like there was a near-future, I was internally screaming. I was in a burning building and all I could see were the little green lit up exit signs.
Commitment can be a very scary thing for many young people, myself included. I am now at a stage in my life where I can be very committed, but I wasn't this way just a year or two ago. I was a young something dude with issues. I was a commitment-phobe who dated a lot of women with no intention of ever settling down. These commitment issues were not only exclusive to my love life, but also my professional life.